Advice In Life.

One piece of advice that i have alway told myself is "No matter if your in a relationship or not, you have to be the male and female figure. Don't depend on other, be independent." What i mean by this is that in life, your not alway going to have someone else to do things for you. For the males,don't alway depend on females to cook your food, to clean your cloths, to clean your bed, or to take care of your children. Females aren't always going to be their to do these things. You have to take responsibility for your own things. For the females, don't depend on males to alway pay the bill, to buy you new things, to make sure that theres food in the house. You to have to be independent, males won't always be there to. Come to reality people come and go and when your partner goes, who will you be depend on? Well if your an independent person you'll be ready for the worst. Now am i saying that you can't find somebody that you depend on, No. I just feel that there to many people who depend on other people. What will you do if you can't be independent and you lose that person that you have alway depend on?